I’m Nelson Pahl, a narrative psychologist that specializes in companion animal loss. In fact, I’m a leading expert on the topic.
I counsel. I research. I educate.
And while my private practice is located in KCMO, USA, I help clients the world-over “complete” their pet loss via virtual sessions, eSeminars, workshops, and retreats.
I even host a burgeoning little podcast called The Pahl Paw Patch.
My approach to grief steps beyond the tired, and largely failing, traditional model of adjustment “stages.”
Instead, I help clients find prompt and efficient healing through narrative & expressive arts tactics, as well as memory reconsolidation techniques for traumatic grief triggers.
The methods I employ are gentle-yet-potent…
And oftentimes feel almost magical.
Professionally, I’ve been heavily influenced by the work of Dr. Robert A. Neimeyer and Dr. Stephan Madigan, as well as the work of Dr. Kenneth Doka and attachment theory expert Dr. Lisa Firestone.
To supplement my narrative & expressive arts approach, I’ve trained in memory reconsolidation (for traumatic grief) under acclaimed British psychotherapist and hypnotherapist Mark Tyrrell.
I’m also a member of the Narrative Therapy Initiative and the Association for Death Education and Counseling.
My life before narrative grief counseling includes a six-year stint in the United States Freestyle Team system, as well as an 18-year career as a respected writer and editor.
Academically, my undergraduate studies included concentrations in psychology and creative writing (UCSD). I earned my MBA Certificate from Tulane. And, I carried out my Ph.D. studies in narrative grief counseling at the University of Portsmouth.
– I’m originally from the Twin Cities of Minneapolis/Saint Paul.
– I’m a pet parent to a pair of precious pups, as well as three cats.
– I love the Minnesota Wild (NHL).
– There’s no where I’d rather be than on a kayak in the mountains.
– I call KC’s yoga queen my beloved.
– And I operate both Nelson Pahl Healing and Wiley Rogue Publishing with my oldest and dearest friend, Shellie Rae.
Needless to say, if you’ve been enduring intense pet loss…
And you’re looking to resolve that grief…
I probably have a solution for you.
Until next time…